Time killing czyli zabijanie czasu

I am sitting on a terrace , red lipstic, red  nails , perfect coffee… and I am catching the first warm rays of the sun. I am waiting … waiting for a phonecall and then for a meeting. I am trying to read a book but in fact, I feel it is just killing time. One of my reader wrote that her familly criticsed her for sitting by the computer and doing something… So what does TIME KILLING mean? Do we really need to do anything? Well, as far as we have fun it is ok. The problem starts when we neglect imporant things for doing nothing, if we choose e.g. computer rather than real relations with people, if we decide that our ‘internet friend’ is more important than our school friend…Believe me , HERE the real problems come… But who said that something is better while something is worse? Who said that sittig and relaxing in the sun is a waste of time? Who can decide that having fun creating our image is sensless? I strongly believe that as far as we control what is going on, everything is ok… and probably each person has different idea of that… so maybe we should not try to decide about what other people should do? Well…worth considering…

 

Siedzę na tarasie, czerwona szminka, czerwony lakier na paznokciach… doskonała kawa… i chwytam pierwsze ciepłe promienie słońca. Czekam… czekam na telefon, a potem na spotkanie. Usiłuję coś czytać, ale tak naprawdę , czuję, że zwyczajnie zabijam czas. Jedna z moich czytelniczek napisała, że rodzina krytykuje ją za siedzenie przed komputerem i robienie “czegoś”… A więc co to takiego jest to ZABIJANIE CZASU? Czy faktycznie powinniśmy Coś robić? Według mnie tak długo jak dobrze się bawimy wszystko jest w porządku. Problem zaczyna się , kiedy zarzucamy ważne sprawy na rzecz nicnierobienia, jeżeli wybieramy komputer zamiast rzeczywistych relacji  z ludźmi. Ale tak naprawdę to kto może zadecydować co jest dla nas lepsze, a co gorsze? Kto powiedział, ze relaksowania się w promieniach słońca jest stratą czasu ? Kto może za nas zadecydować, że zabawa w kreowanie naszego wyglądu jest bezsensowna? Głęboko wierzę, że tak długo,  jak kontrolujemy to co się dzieje, wszystko jest w porządku…i najprawdopodobniej każdy ma swoją własną koncepcję na ten porządek. Może więc nie powinniśmy próbować decydować o tym, co inni powinni robić? Hm… warte przemyślenia….

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    A ja uwielbiam takie ,,nic nie robienie”. Taki poranek, lub nawet dzień jest, jak nagroda. W tym ,,nic nie robieniu”właśnie
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